An entrepreneur is an individual who creates a new business, bearing most of the risks and enjoying most of the rewards. Entrepreneurs who prove to be successful in taking on the risks of a startup are rewarded with profits, fame, and continued growth opportunities.
WHAT DOES AN ENTREPRENEUR DO?
An entrepreneur identifies a need that no existing businesses addresses and determines a solution for that need. Entrepreneurial activity includes developing and launching new businesses and marketing them, often with the end goal of selling the business to turn a profit.
Additionally, although the term “entrepreneur” is often associated with startups and small businesses, any founder of a successful household-name business began as an entrepreneur.
If you want to become an entrepreneur but worry you don’t have the money for it, your finances don’t have to stop you from achieving your goals.
7 CHARACTERISTICS OF SUCCESSFUL ENTREPRENEURS
Success in entrepreneurship isn’t just about your idea or your money. Plenty of people have interesting ideas or a lot of cash to throw around — and they never quite manage to find success in their ventures. If you want to be an entrepreneur, take a step back and evaluate whether or not you have the following characteristics. (And remember: if you don’t have these traits now, you can develop them down the road to improve your chances of successes…
Self-Motivation
One of the most important traits of entrepreneurs is self-motivation. When you want to succeed, you need to be able to push yourself. You aren’t answerable to anyone else as an entrepreneur, and that sometimes means that it’s hard to get moving without anyone to make you. You need to be dedicated to your plan and keep moving forward — even if you aren’t receiving an immediate paycheck.
Understand What You Offer
As an entrepreneur, you need to know what you offer, and how it fits into the market. Whether it’s a product or a service, you need to know where you fit in. That means you need to know when it’s time to tweak things a little bit. This also includes knowing whether you are high end, middle of the road or bargain. Being able to position yourself and then adjust as needed is an important part of entrepreneurship.
Take Risks
Successful entrepreneurs know that sometimes it’s important to take risks. Playing it safe almost never leads to success as a business owner. It’s not about taking just any risk, though. Understanding calculated risks that are more likely to pay off is an important part of being an entrepreneur. You’ll need to be willing to take a few risks to succeed.
Know How to Network
Knowing how to network is an important part of entrepreneurship. Sometimes who you know is an important part of success. Being able to connect with others and recognize partnership opportunities can take you a long way as a business owner. Figure out where to go for networking opportunities and make it a point to learn how to be effective.
Basic Money Management Skills and Knowledge
We often think of successful entrepreneurs as “big picture” people who don’t worry so much about managing the day to day. And it’s true that you might have an accountant or other team members to help you manage the business. However, if you want to be successful, you should still have basic money management skills and knowledge. Understand how money works so that you know where you stand, and so that you run your business on sound principles.
Flexibility
To a certain degree, you need to be flexible as an entrepreneur. Be willing to change as needed. Stay on top of your industry and be ready to adopt changes in processes and product as they are needed. Sometimes, you also need flexibility in your thinking. This is an essential part of problem-solving. You want to be able find unique and effective solutions to issues.
Passion
Finally, successful entrepreneurs are passionate. They feel deeply about their product or service or mission. Passion is what will help you find motivation when you are discouraged and it will drive your forward. Passion is fuel for successful entrepreneurship. If you find yourself losing your passion, that might be the clue that it’s time to move on to something else (that stokes your passion). There are many serial entrepreneurs that create successful businesses, sell them, and then create something else. As you consider your characteristics, think about how to better develop them to help you become a better entrepreneur.
SUMMARISED PRESENTATION ABOUT SAIRUI /CHY MALL ECOMMERCE BUSINESS
CHY MALL E-COMMERCE AND NEW RETAIL
The name of the business is CHY Mall
It’s a mega online shopping mall like kikuu, Alibaba, Jumia and the rest….
👉 CHY MALL or CHY E-COMMERCE is an E-Commerce business (online mall) that runs on a trading system called “NEW RETAIL”
CHYmall operates a new concept of trading called New Retail e- commerce
✊ Please note , that you are not selling anything, you buy products and company sells for you on little commission and your profit drop together with your capital after 10-12days in which you can now trade again and both your profit and capital drops back after 10-12day and it goes on like that…
✊ On each of your trade, the company gives you a product depending on the package you register.
✊The free products are for you to use and if you are a good marketer, you can also sell to make more money
Note Also that the payment is one time payment, and the trading capital is refundable
In this business:-👇👇👇👇👇
👉You don’t need to invite anyone before you start making money every 10-12 days. 👉You are not under any pressure to sell any market as the company sell for you 👉 No monthly autoship 👉The company also gives you Free gift on any product you trade on for every 10-12 days
👇👇👇👇👇 WHY YOU SHOULD JOIN CHY
With CHY MALL, 👉You spend less than 5 minutes in every trade, it’s so simple
👉You make profits every 10-12 days
👉You are your own boss, you control your business as a partner.
👉You can withdraw your Trading Capital💰
👉You can withdraw profit through MTN Mobile Money, Bank, or Bitcoin📲
👉No skill required
👉You will get free CHY products to use every time you trade
👉You can make more income when you sponsor people to partner with CHY, this is 100% optional.
SUMMARY OF ALL THE VARIOUS PACKAGES AND THEIR EARNING (PROFITS) 👇👇👇
VIP 2 Total Pack cost: $280 (N53,200) Every 10 -12days profit= $7 (N2660) Every Month profit= $21 (N7980) Plus product:..$50..(N19,000) Products are quantum beauty spray bottle and quantum wedding ring
VIP 3 Total Pack cost: $280 (N106,400) Every 10-12 days profit= $14 (N5320) Every Month profit= $42 (N15,960) Plus product:..$100.(N38,000) Products are eyes glasses, Fuel saver, compression mask and phone massager
VIP 4 Total Pack cost: $840 (N319,200) Every 10 days profit= $42 (N15,960) Every Month profit= $127 (N48,360) Plus product:..$300.(N114000) Products are moxibust, underwear and quantum energy pendant and chain and bracelet
VIP 5 Total Pack cost: $1680 (N638,400) Every 10 -12 days profit= $84 (N31,920) Every Month profit= $252 (N95,760) Plus product:..$600..(N228,000) Products are led beauty mask, Foot Massager, Quantum Watch
Please Note ✍️
👉 CHY is not an investment scheme.
👉 CHY is not a bank.
👉 We’re an e-Commerce company trading in the e-commerce.
🤜We run a buying and selling concept via a revolutionary ideology called NEW RETAIL.
🤜You must buy before company helps you to sell what you bought (physical products).
🤜If you don’t buy, you will make no profit and company won’t sell for you. Very simple!
🤜We deal on physical products you can see, touch and use for numerous health benefits.
🤜Aside trading, (money-making), CHY’s main value is touching lives via modern health technologies.
🤜We’re not a money-mongering company. Healthy lives first before money.
🤜 This is why company supplies you with health products every month For free without paying a dime. They’re for you and your loved ones. Use them, gift others or feel free to resell.
A new & upgraded business that’s using the same Cloud Computing system as Alibaba i.e AliBaba Cloud which has been operating globally since 2004 is here for a lifetime to colour your life financially….
Welcome to the business of the 21 century. Its my pleasure to have you here.
If you noticed today you will see that various systems in the world is changing especially in the way people make money.
CHYMALL is an online shopping mall like jumia, Alibaba,eBay,and many others.💻
Which feature a new modal called the ”THE NEW RETAIL”.
It is the business you and I have being waiting for. It a system that combined the new retail e commerce with network marketing modal to form am amazing business that we are so happy and satisfied with .
And so you too can be among the millions that is enjoying financial freedom today, you will get to know more about us soon.
So what is CHYMALL ? It is an online mall which feature a new modal call the New retail. It is the combination of the normal e commerce business (like jumia and Alibaba) and multi level marketing. This multi million dollars company is in actual fact giving 80% of it profit to partner via the same New retail modal which is never present and never being seen in other online shopping mall in the world. And this profit is made every 10-12 days.
CHY MALL;
IT’S A BUYING AND SELLING COMPANY
IT’S AN E-COMMERCE PLATFORM: just like Alibaba, Jumia, eBay, Amazon, Kiku, Tinaton
IT’S A COMPANY THAT SAYS THAT; REGISTER WITH US WITH AN AMOUNT TO ACQUIRE A SPACE IN OUR SHOPPING MALL FOR TRADING. BUY PRODUCTS FOR YOUR SHOP FOR US TO SELL FOR YOU TO MAKE YOU SOME PROFITS EVERY 10 DAYS
IT’S A BUYING AND SELLING COMPANY FOR PROFITS SHARING, AND WHERE YOU DON’T NEED TO REFER PEOPLE BEFORE YOU EARN! EVEN THOUGH IF YOU DO, YOU WILL BE EARNING BONUSES AS WELL
IT’S A BUYING AND SELLING COMPANY THAT DEALS IN QUANTUM PRODUCTS AND HEALTH FOOD SUPPLEMENTS FOR HER CLIENTS AT THE NEW RETAIL AND WHOLESALE LEVELS
IT’S THE ONLY AN E-COMMERCE COMPANY THAT SELLS PRODUCTS THAT HER CLIENTS BUY AND SELL AGAIN AND AGAIN THROUGH A SYSTEM CALLED NEW RETAIL SYSTEM LET ME TAKE YOU THROUGH THE CONCEPT, IDEOLOGY, PROFIT SCHEME AND FEW PRODUCTS OF CHY E-COMMERCE INTERNATIONAL
JOINING PACKAGE
HOW TO GET REGISTERED
VIP2 Registration – #19,000 Trading capital – #34,200 Total = #53,200 Earn #7,980 monthly from trading + free product worth #57,000
VIP3 Registration – #38,000 Trading capital – #68,400 Total = #106,400 Earn #15,960 monthly from trading + free product worth over #114,000
VIP4 Registration – #114,000 Trading capital – #205,200 Total = #319,200 Earn #47,880 monthly from trading + free product worth over #342,000
VIP5 Registration – #228,000 Trading capital – #410,400 Total = #638,400 Earn #95,760 monthly from trading + free product worth over $684,000
LET SEE ONE YEAR PROFIT PLAN WITH CHY MALL
IMAGING YOU INVEST WITH SAIRUI TODAY THEN BY 1YEAR TIME THESE WILL BE YOUR PROFIT ALONE
1✅ VIP2 cost is $140=#53,200. Every 10days profit is $7=#2,660 Meaning every month will be $7×3= $21=#7,960
Therefore in one year your profit alone will be $21×12= $252=#95,520
Now imaging you open three VIP2 accounts it means the profit will be tripled
2❇️ VIP3 cost is $280=#106,400. Every 10days profit is $14=#5,320 Meaning every month will be $14×3= $42=#15,960
Therefore in one year your profit alone will be $42×12= $504=#191,040
Now imaging you open three VIP3 accounts it means the profit will be tripled
3💹 VIP4 cost is $840=#319,200. Every 10days profit is $42=#15,960 Meaning every month will be $42×3= $126=#47,880
Therefore in one year your profit alone will be $126×12= $1,512=#573.120
Now imaging you open three VIP4 accounts it means the profit will be tripled
4☑️ VIP5 cost is $1680=#638,400. Every 10days profit is $84=#31,920 Meaning every month will be $84×3= $252=#95,760
Therefore in one year your profit alone will be $252×12= $3024=#1,146,240
Now imaging you open three VIP5 accounts it means the profit will be tripled
NOTE🖊️; These are profits without your trading capital. Meaning your trading capital is intact . You can choose to withdraw your trading capital anytime you want.
IN FACT CHY IS WOW!🙌🏻👏🏻
WHY YOU SHOULD JOIN CHYMALL….
*No compulsory referrals.
No compulsory selling. *No Capital lock up. *No imposition on members.
No much dependency on referrals.
No monthly Authorship BUT RATHER
Free will referrals. *Relaxation for ten(10-12) days. *Receive products after registration.
Own an online shop for life.
Every Ten(10-12) days profit making.
Own personal account with the company. *Enjoy Profit sharing. *Bonus gains after free will referrals. *Own Trading capital. *Products gaining every ten (10-12)days.
Can withdraw both Trading capital and interest/profit ,and many more
NOW LET’S LOOK AT THIS REAL LIFE SITUATION
✅I have money and want to start-up a business.
✅The first thing I need is a shop, I got a shop and paid for it and the shop is handed over to me empty no goods in it.
✅This👆alone cannot earn me money because it is an empty shop, so I need to stock the shop with products or goods
✅Depending on the size of the shop, I need capital to buy products to stock in the shop. Suppose I used $1000 to buy products and put in there.
✅At the end of a period (say 10 days ) all my goods were bought and therefore I get my trading capital ($1000) + a profit(say $20).
✅At the end of the 10 days , I would have gotten $1020.
✅I can decide to use the $1000 to stock my shop again and keep the $20 as my profit.
✅Or, I can decide to stop trading and keep the $1020.
THIS👆 IS EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENS IN THE NEW RETAIL CONCEPT CHYMALL-COMMERCE
WHAT MAKES CHYMALL DIFFERENT FROM OTHER E-COMMERCE ???
CHY MALL is using a new concept called New Retail and at the same time using Traditional concept.
CHYMALL gives opportunities to members to buy products from their platform at wholesale price, meaning members buy direct from the manufacturers
CHYMALL sells the products members buy at wholesale price at Retail price to consumers all over the world.
CHYMALL pays members every 10 days and gifts products freely to members as well.
CHYMALL is not a pure network marketing company where you are mandated to recruit people before you make money.
In this company, you still make money without referring anyone but when you recruit or refer the business to other people, you make much much more extra money.
CHYMALL does all the selling for you and brings back your trading capital and profit every 10 – 12 days without fail.
PRODUCTS ON CHYMALL
CHYMALL products are Quantum energy products
Products available in Nigerian Service centres include the following;
Slimming Patch
Men’s Quantum Underwear
Quantum Pendant
Quantum Anti-Blue Ray Glasses
Quantum Ring
Anti radiation sticker
Quantum Beauty Spray
Fuel Saver
Beauty Mask
Foot Massager
Bracelet
Quantum mechanical watchQuantum spectrum skin rejuvenation maskQuantum eye glassesQuantum ringQuantum beauty sprayQuantum energy heart protector chainFoot massagerSlimming patchQuantum men boxersPhone radiation stickerQuantum energy fuel saver card
Imagine getting all this products for free on every 10-12 days trading you did on CHYMALL E-COMMERCE
CHYMALL is full registered in Nigeria and we are also paying our tax…👇👇
Certificate of authorizationTax payment proofCAC certificate prove
Frequently Asked Questions about CHYMALL
✍️ Answers to frequently asked questions about CHYMALL!
✍️ Does my earnings change since the Company has changed from Sairui Mall to Chymall?
ANS: NO
✍ Do I need to recruit (refer) people before I earn every 10-12days?
ANS: NO
✍ Do I have to sell products before getting my money?
ANS: NO…. WE DON’T SELL PRODUCTS ON CHYMALL (COMPANY SELLS FOR US WHILE WE EARN)
✍ Do I earn every 10-12days after trading?
ANS: YES
✍ Do I earn both my trade money and profit after the 10-12days trade period?
ANS: YES
✍️ Where is your office in Nigeria?
ANS: CHYMALL has not opened her Company office to attend to the large public in Nigeria yet…. Rather Chymall has Service Centres across different states in Nigeria!
✍️ How do I withdraw my money after trading or if I choose to discontinue the Business?
ANS: You can withdraw via these channels; Through UBA and Zenith Banks, Bitcoin or P2P transfer!
✍ How long will this business last?
ANS: As long as people use Quantum Energy Products
✍ Are you sure I don’t need to refer anybody before I make money every 10-12days?
ANS: YES
✍ Can I set my earnings on autopilot?
ANS: YES (there is now Autotrade for 5rounds and 10rounds of trade while you just take profit
PLEASE NOTE..
� CHY is not a bank.
� CHY is not an investment scheme.
� We’re an e-Commerce company.
�We run a buying and selling concept via a revolutionary ideology called NEW RETAIL.
�You must buy before company helps you to sell what you bought (physical products).
�If you don’t buy, you will make no profit and company won’t sell for you. Very simple!
�We deal on physical products you can see, touch and use for numerous health benefits.
�Aside trading, (money-making), CHY’s main value is touching lives via modern health technologies.
�We’re not a money-mongering company. Healthy lives first before money.
� This is why company supplies you with health products every month. They’re for you and your loved ones. Use them, gift others or feel free to resell.
✊ Finally, note that CHY is here to stay. We’re going to nowhere.
A new & upgraded business that’s using the same Cloud Computing system as Alibaba i.e AliBaba Cloud which has been operating globally since 2004 is here for a lifetime to colour your life financially….
“The future belongs to those who see opportunities before they become obvious to everybody”
I want to present to us a business opportunity. Please once you come across this, do well to go through the messages one after the other, Thank you..
We know that many of you may not be interested but there is every reason why you should. There is need for you to change your mindset now, from what it is to some thing new. For example many still have the employee mindset which is…’Go to school, graduate and get a job. In fact it is the society’s norm, they say when you go to school and get a job you will be successful. Is that true? Well I will leave you to answer that question. The world has taught us that, having such a mindset now, will not lead you anywhere, rather you will remain poor, broke and always in want, because the salary you accept is the bribe your boss give you to help make him successful. And so in exchange for that salary, you sell the three most important things in your life to your boss. 1) Time 2) choice 3) freedom I guess you know what these means. Then after many years of working for your boss (whether in the public sector or private sector)you are replaced or retired with little or nothing for yourself and family. So you see, working for somebody or having an employee mindset will not make you successful.
There is also the self employed mindset, that is those working alone,let me ask you a question, can a tree make up a forest? If no is your answer then if you want to be successful you do not have to work alone you have to work with people. This is also a society norm they say learn a skill/trade and open a shop and be making money. Not knowing that you are just there operating poverty. The shop can’t work for you,its you that is working for the shop you stay there 24/7 to operate your shop before you can make money, then I ask,between you and the shop who is the boss?
The covid-19 pandemic have taught us that being self employed or having only one source of income cannot make you successful. All shop were asked to close down even now that they have easy the lock down many shop owner are still trying to get back on their feet. many have lost their customers because people no longer need their services and even if they do where is the money in the economy people are struggling. .
Therefore if people are not buying how will a shop owner have money to pay bills such as house rent,shop rent,light bill,school fees,family upkeep, salary you pay your workers,transportation, the list is endless. As a shop owner there are three things that can affect your business. 1) competition 2) Hazard 3)Government policy. So you see working alone cannot make you successful. You have to start thinking in line with working with people.
It gets to a time in life when we begin to evaluate ourselves and we ask ourselves some vital questions like, during my aging process will I be able to afford a cook, driver, security, house help, vacation and financial freedom? Where I won’t have to depend on salary from government? Wheremy money doesn’t come only when I’m actively involved in a shop business? if I don’t show up at my work place will I still be able to make money? If I retire we I be able to afford the best medical care for myself? Will I be able to fulfill that scripture that say a good man liveth inheritance for his children children? And am I going to be a burden to my children, depend on them to eat, drive a good car and go for vacation?
These are questions we should ask ourselves as ageing is inevitable. Money might not be everything but a wealthy sick man is far better than a broke sick man, a wealthy old person is far better than a poor aged person
Do you know that when all physical shops were asked to close down and everybody stayed at home online shopping mall were still open, in fact they made lots of money because many people had to order products from them. In effect all those who had online shops in Chymall were not bordered about the lockdown they were busy making money every 10day. What if I tell you that you too have an opportunity to own online shop in Chymall and make money like us every 10-12days?
The name of our company is Chymall. It was called Sairui mall before now but due the partnership between sairuimall and the Century Yeng Yue Group the name was changed to Chymall.. However most of our slides and presentation material still have Sairui mall
So what is Chymall ? It is an online mall which feature a new model call the New retail. It is the combination of the normal e commerce business (like jumia and Alibaba) and multi level marketing. This multi million dollars company is in actual fact giving 80% of it profit to partner via the same New retail model which is never present and never being seen in other online shopping mall in the world. And this profit is made every 10-12 days.
Will you like to join us to make this type of profit every 10 day?
*Why you should join Chy Mall
*No compulsory referrals.
No compulsory selling. *No Capital lock up. *No imposition on members.
No much dependency on referrals.
No monthly Authorship BUT RATHER
Free will referrals. *Relaxation for ten(10-12) days. *Receive products after registration.
Own an online shop for life.
Every Ten(10-12) days profit making.
Own personal account with the company. *Enjoy Profit sharing. *Bonus gains after free will referrals. *Own Trading capital. *Products gaining every ten (10-12)days.
Can withdraw both Trading capital and interest/profit ,and many more
JOIN US
Chy Mall Has Six (6) Streams of Mouthwatering Passive Income!!
1) Direct Sharing 2) Store Profit 3) Chain Store Profit 4) Service Profit 5) Chain Service Profit 6) Traditional E-Commerce Profit.
Apart from the above, Chy Group will rollout many life-changing opportunities and those of us who are already Business Owners in the chy mall will forever thank the one who introduced this opportunity to us.
Here we are, afraid of losing what we have all the time, holding on to it so tight that not a soul can touch it. We think by hiding it from the world, it’s hidden and it’s ours. Nothing is. Nothing ever will be. For, nothing ever was.
If you think there is anything that you have, that’s yours, be it money, a house, a job, or a girlfriend… it’s nothing but an illusion. It’ll all disappear… in one blow. One blow, my man.
Here we are, so insecure that we are afraid of re-starting our lives, so we just carry on trying to sort out the current mess. The thought that we should give it all up and just start all over with nothing might cross our minds some time, sure, but we get scared and we push away anything that scares us.
There is nothing I can ever achieve or gain that I cannot lose, in a matter of seconds. You have never gained enough to not be able to lose it all, in just a few minutes. What you think is yours, was never yours and will never be yours. Whatever you make here, you leave here. You came naked and you’re going to go back naked.
SO WHAT ARE YOU AFRAID OF?
Let all be lost,let them take away everything as long as you have your heart beating strong, as long as you have your nostrils working fine, as long as the blood flows in your veins, you will live, you will breathe and you can get it all back… again and again. For, if you can do it once, you can damn well do it again. It’s just a game we play – LIFE
Emotional intelligence allows a person to recognize and embrace his/her own and other people’s emotions, as well as to recognize their cause. Emotionally intelligent people develop their creative side more quickly and have the ability to deal with a particular problem in several different ways. Emotional intelligence also enables easier social integration.
It consists of five components and those are knowledge of own inner feelings, control over the intensity of emotions, self-motivation, recognition of other people’s emotions and establishment and maintenance of relationships with other people. When it comes to the knowledge of own inner feelings, the key is to recognize them at the moment they occur. People who are sure about their feelings manage their life better and make more deliberate decisions (choosing a marriage partner, University, workplace, etc.). People who have the ability to control the intensity of emotions are able to calm themselves down and easily free themselves from depression, anxiety or irritability. Self-motivation is an essential quality because no matter how talented or capable we are, we will not achieve anything without persistent and long-term labor.
Emotionally intelligent people are able to motivate themselves, so they achieve better results. They control their impulses, think positively and they are optimistic. Emotionally intelligent people have the ability to recognize other people’s emotions, they can sympathize with them and help them. Also, they can easily identify the signals that indicate what other people want or need. The establishment and maintenance of relationships with other people is also an essential characteristic of an emotionally intelligent person. It depends on the recognition of other people’s emotions and on the appropriate response to them..
Open, honest and safe communication is a fundamental part of a healthy relationship. The first step to building a relationship is making sure you both understand each other’s needs and expectations—being on the same page is very important. That means you have to talk to each other! The following tips can help you and your partner create and maintain a healthy relationship:
Speak Up
In a healthy relationship, if something is bothering you, it’s best to talk about it instead of holding it in.
Respect Each Other
Your partner’s wishes and feelings have value, and so do yours. Let your significant other know you are making an effort to keep their ideas in mind. Mutual respect is essential in maintaining healthy relationships.
Compromise
Disagreements are a natural part of healthy relationships, but it’s important that you find a way to compromise if you disagree on something. Try to solve conflicts in a fair and rational way.
Be Supportive
Offer reassurance and encouragement to each other. Also, let your partner know when you need their support. Healthy relationships are about building each other up, not putting each other down.
Respect Each Other’s Privacy.
Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you have to share everything and constantly be together. Healthy relationships require space. ❤💋❤💋❤
There may be days when you get up in the morning and things aren’t the way you had hoped they would be.
That’s when you have to tell your self that things will get better.
There are times when people disappoint you and let you down.
But those are the times when you must remind yourself to trust your own judgements, and opinions to keep your life focused on believing in yourself.
There will be challenges to face and changes to make in your life and it’s up to you to accept them.
Constantly keep yourself headed in the right direction for you. It may not be easy at times but in those times of struggle, you will find a stronger sense of who you are.
So when the days come that are filled with frustration and unexpected responsibilities, remember to believe in yourself and all you want your life to be.
Because the challenges and changes will only help you to find the goals that you know are meant to come true for you.
There was a boy and a girl dating each other ever since the beginning of their relationship the girl’s family member disagree her relationship with the boy. Saying that because of family background, if she insist of being together with the boy, she’ll suffer for her whole lifetime.
Because of the pressure applied by family members, she frequently quarrel with him. The girl does love the boy, she used to ask him, “How much do you love me?” Because the boy is not good with words, he used to make her angry. With additional comment from her parents, her mood get even worse.
The boy, has become her “anger releasing target”. And the boy, just silently allowed her to continuously release her anger on him.
Later, the boy graduated from University. He plan to further study overseas but before he left. He proposed to the girl…
I, don’t know how to say nice words but I do know that, I love you. If you agree, I am willing to take care of you, the whole life. About your family members, I will work hard to convince them and agree on us.”
“Marry me, will you?”, the girl agreed.
And her parents, looking at the effort shown by the boy, agreed with them. Finally, before the boy go oversea, they are engaged.
The girl stay back in the hometown, step into the working society where as the boy continuing his study oversea. They maintained their relationship through telephone and letters. Although time is difficult to get through with, but both of them never give up.
One day, the girl left home for work as usual on her way to the bus stop, a car lose control and knock her down.
As she awake from unconsciousness, she saw her parents and realize how seriously she got hurt and how fortunate of her, not to get killed. Looking at her parents, with their faced got all wet by their tears, she tried to comfort them.
But then, she found out that She can’t even spell out a word, she tried her best to make some voice but all she managed, was to breath without any voice.
She’s mute. According to the doctor, the injury affected her brain, and that cause her to be mute for the rest of her life. Listening to her parents persuade, but can’t even reply with a single word, the girl collapsed. Throughout the days, others than crying silently, still it is crying.
Later, the girl discharged from hospital. Returning to her home, everything is still like before. Except that the phone ring, has turned into the worst nightmare of hers. Ring after ring, continuously stimulate her, stimulating her pain But she can’t tell the boy.
She don’t want to be a burden to him, and wrote him a letter telling him that she no longer want to wait, the relationship between them ended, and even returned him the engagement ring. Facing the letters and telephone from the boy, all she can do, is to allow tears falling from her eyes.
Her father decided to move, after seeing the pain she is suffering. Hoping that she could forget everything and be happier into a new environment, the girl started to learn, slowly picking up sign language and start over again. Also telling herself to forget the boy.
One day, her best friend tell her that the boy’s back. He’s searching all around for her, she asked her best friend not to tell him about her and asked her to tell him to forget her. After that for more than a year there was no news of boy.
One day her best friend tells her, that the boy is getting married soon, and passed the Wedding Card to her. She open the card sadly, but she found her name on the card.
The moment she want to ask her best friend, the boy appear in front of her. With an unfamiliar sign language, he told her “I spent more than a year’s time, to force myself to learn sign language, in order to tell you, I have not forgot our promise, give me an opportunity.
let me be your voice. I love you.”Looking at the slow sign language by the boy, and the engagement ring she gave back to him, She finally smiled.
Moral: Do not be a coward and run away whenever there is a problem, remember that every problem has a solution, never ever break someone’s heart, you may not know when it will happen to you.
Setting goals gives you long-term vision and short-term motivation. It focuses your acquisition of knowledge, and helps you to organize your time and your resources so that you can make the most of your life.
By setting sharp, clearly defined goals, you can measure and take pride in the achievement of those goals, and you’ll see forward progress in what might previously have seemed a long pointless grind. You will also raise your self-confidence , as you recognize your own ability and competence in achieving the goals that you’ve set.
Starting to Set Personal Goals you set your goals on a number of levels:
First you create your “big picture” of what you want to do with your life (or over, say, the next 10 years), and identify the large-scale goals that you want to achieve. Then, you break these down into the smaller and smaller targets that you must hit to reach your lifetime goals. Finally, once you have your plan, you start working on it to achieve these goals. This is why we start the process of setting goals by looking at your lifetime goals. Then, we work down to the things that you can do in, say, the next five years, then next year, next month, next week, and today, to start moving towards them.
Examples of goals
One month goals
A Quarter year goals
A half a year goals
One year goals
Five year goals
Decade goals
Five decades goals
Century goals
Achieving Goals
When you’ve achieved a goal, take the time to enjoy the satisfaction of having done so. Absorb the implications of the goal achievement, and observe the progress that you’ve made towards other goals.
If the goal was a significant one, reward yourself appropriately. All of this helps you build the self-confidence you deserve.
With the experience of having achieved this goal, review the rest of your goal plans:
If you achieved the goal too easily, make your next goal harder. If the goal took a dispiriting length of time to achieve, make the next goal a little easier. If you learned something that would lead you to change other goals, do so. If you noticed a deficit in your skills despite achieving the goal, decide whether to set goals to fix this.
In the journey of life, one face pain, sorrow and grief because without pain there would be no challenges and no lesson will be learned. You can often learn from mistakes and thus get motivated by the given pain.
You face challenges which gives you pain and this pain, and this pain in turn makes you more stronger, and thus you might change your direction in life.
At this time, life might seem meaningless to you but, you will eventually recover and grow stronger.
Count on your blessings and take a lot of faith and ability to forgive…
ASHKAL IMPACT CONCEPT 